Sunday, June 27, 2010

Bath Time!


Matthew had his first bath on Thursday (the 24th) and is now a clean little baby. He screamed during the entire bath but was happy later when both his sisters brushed his hair.
Life with three kids is fun. What I've noticed is that there is no downtime. I've had a lot of help - thanks Mom!! But when I'm on my own, there is always something going on or some argument to break up or some naked 2 year old running around the house (really? do you have to pick this time to decide to potty train?).
I'm so thankful for the help we've received though. I'm not sure how I'm going to make it on my own full time :). Erik is wonderful and helps a lot too. He is very happy that I'm nursing too since he can sleep all night long!
I was always jealous of other women when they nursed and felt like a failure that I couldn't do it. The fact that I've been able to do it (even though it is painful!!) is such a blessing. I'm so happy we named him Matthew meaning "God's gift" because God has given me a gift to be able to nurse him.
Here is a video of Matthew hiccuping. It's not super exciting but I think he is cute so I took the video. The girls really do love him and I'm sure they will spoil him as they all get older.
65 points on Quiddler today!
Well off to attempt sleep!

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Matthew's Birth Story







On Saturday 6/19, Erik and I were in the basement watching Sherlock Holmes when I needed to take my obligatory bathroom break in the middle (at around 10:30pm). I stood up and water gushed everywhere.


We never finished watching the movie.




We called Tim and Jen to watch the girls. Jen came immediately and picked them up with their car seats while Erik and I headed off to the hospital. They were watching a movie too but they actually finished their movie.


At the hospital a nurse determined that my water indeed had broken and I was taken to labor and delivery. We were having the baby!!


My contractions started getting worse but it took awhile (not until around midnight). Then at 1:30 I got my epidural which was nice. I was just laying there waiting to push when I remembered that I really don't like labor.


At around 3:30 the doctor, Todd Jenkins, came to visit me. I've never met him but he is part of the practice I go to. He was great though and I'm glad he delivered the baby.


At around 3:45am the baby's heartrate had decelerated enough that they wanted me to push even though I thought it was a little early. Baby's heartrate was down to 112 which they said was too low. So I ended up pushing for awhile until the baby's head came out and the doctor said "stop pushing". I thought that was odd but I'm glad he didn't tell me in full detail or I might have freaked out. He was moving the baby's shoulders all around because the cord was wrapped around the baby's neck. Fortunately, he knew what to do! Then he said I could start pushing again. Before the baby came out the doctor said this would be a big baby - of course I said I don't have big babies :).


Finally, at 4:16am on June 20, 2010 Matthew Joseph Cooper was born! Happy Father's Day! Matthew means "God's gift" and he certainly is a gift to us. He weighed 8lbs 2oz and was 20.8" long with a wide head of 14.2". I couldn't believe I had an 8lb baby! Anyway he cried immediately and was fat and pink and cute. What a blessing!

Erik posted a picture on facebook right away (because he has an awesome phone) and I tried nursing him. He actually has a strong sucking reflex which I didn't have with the girls so it has been more successful nursing him. I think I can do it this time!!!


When Jen told the girls that they have a new baby brother she said "isn't that cool?". Jenna's response was "that's so not cool". Jenna wanted another sister and always drew pictures of the baby in Mommy's belly with a dress on. Hopefully she will accept Matthew.

We came home from the hospital yesterday and nursing was so successful that I got up with him myself all night long! Erik only got up once because Matthew was screaming his brains out and woke him up. Erik is happy that nursing is going well too since he can actually sleep :). Now for when I'll sleep....that's a different story.

We still have some challenges as it looks like Matthew has jaundice - just like Jenna and Sarah both did. However, we are a happy family of 5 now and when my feet stop swelling I'll be able to actually go outside :).
Just as with the girls we have a stuffed animal (a horse) and will be taking pictures every month of Matthew with the horse so we can see how he has grown.

Welcome Matthew!

Thursday, June 10, 2010

Sprinkle

I was blessed this past weekend by my friends throwing a "sprinkle" for me. Not quite a shower (since this is baby 3) but an opportunity to get together and receive diapers and wipes. That's really what we need anyway. My friend Christine made a cute diaper cake (pictured). Erik was horrified and said that diapers and cake are two things that should definitely not go together. I think he missed the spirit of the diaper cake.


I snapped a picture of my friends at the Sprinkle (minus me and Joy). It was a fun time.
In other news:

  1. The OB thinks this baby is coming sooner rather than later. On Monday (June 7) she said I have about 7-10 days since I'm 3-4cm dilated. NO! I need until June 20 - that's when grades are due.
  2. Jenna had a sleepover at Nicholas's house last night. She had a wonderful time and was actually really upset when she came back home today. Apparently Nicholas's house is a lot more fun than ours.
  3. Jenna is done with preschool for the year and they had a pool party in one of her classmate's backyards. It was an amazing pool (I snapped a picture) and next to it was a koi pond. Gorgeous house! Not in our price range though :).
  4. Our watermelon and cucumbers are already starting to come up in our garden. I'm hoping to remember to water them after baby comes!
  5. I just finished The Madness Season by C.S.Friedman. I just love her books. They are so complex that sometimes I have to reread sections to really figure out what is going on. I always look forward to reading her books.
  6. I'm going to start on some Timothy Zahn books next. Apparently, according to Tim, his books are like bubble gum. This might be good after C.S.Friedman which is more like well done steak.
  7. 71 points on quiddler today!